Saturday 29 November 2014

Extreme Negative Fangirls

According to dictionaries that I've looked up (don't judge, I actually did my research before consulting this matter m'kay?), the word 'fangirl' means the following:

Urban Dictionary: A rabid breed of human female who is obesessed with either a fictional character or an actor.

Dictionary.com: an obsessive female fan.

Free Merriam-Webster: a girl or woman who is an extremely or overly enthusiastic fan of someone or something.

I won't explain any further what fangirls are because c'mon, I'm nice enough to provide the definitions from dictionaries above and if you still don't understand, then your comprehensive skills are disgustingly horrible and you should probably go find some ABC toddler websites and start your basics. I hear babies are really great learners so no worries, you'll get through in a day or two.

Right, to begin with, I have a really bad impression of fangirls. I never did understand the things fangirls always do, like the notorious stalking and squealing, and I find it really annoying and immature. If you're a fangirl, be it the ones in mildest stages or the rabid hybrids, I suggest you resume googling pictures of your idol's brother's friend's father's aunt's goldfish. Go on, I'm not stopping you. I'd hate to.

As I was saying, it gets really irritating. The impression I get from fangirls are the girls who are incapable of doing anything except stalking, squealing, mooning, swooning, obsessing, and thinking about their idols 24/7. They're the ones who look up their idol's addresses, have dreams of them each night, wake up with them at first though and so on.

What prompted me to address this matter was when I found out that a certain YouTuber's brother was harassed by crazy fangirls when they somehow found out about him. Then starts the question bombing in which is directed all at the YouTuber himself, not his brother.

Imagine what is must have been like for that little brother. It gets annoying, and although they might be blood-related, they aren't exactly carbon copies of each other. They all different individuals themselves, and if you wish to ask a question or something similar, ask the person himself, not his siblings or whosoever that it might be related. What message does that seem to convey? That you're only interested in only the YouTuber himself, and you're using his brother to contact him.

Futhermore, these Fangirls also attacked this innocent sibling by insulting him, claiming that he will never be as good as his brother, putting him down etc etc which I think is unfair because, hey, who are you to judge and compare? As I've said, they're different individuals and you can't compare like that because each has their own strengths and weaknesses. It's unfair. In my opinion, the only fair way to compare a person is to compare with the person himself.

What pisses me off is that they criticize others over innocent, petty things that weren't part of their business in the first place. I strongly believe that criticism is considered okay if you think that something is unfavorable, not up to expections, not good enough etcetera etcetera, and that YOU HAVE FEASIBLE AND DOABLE FEEDBACK FOR IMPROVEMENT. Otherwise, it's pretty much considered as whining because obviously you're just waiting for people to solve your problems.

Phew, that was a pretty long rant that got a bit carried away, but I'm glad I got that off my chest. It's just that the world is too unfair sometimes, yknow.

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